Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Friendzoned? Learn to escape it! and know the reason why it happened

Getting friendzoned actually is bit of a, How do I say it? Well it is embarrassing and kind'a big insult. So today I will tell you how to escape it 
(50-50 chances don't get your hopes up to fast)

  • First step: Giving Space

Stop being so attached to her/him, like calling them constantly. It can be very irritating sometimes, give them their space. Pretend as if you are not interested in them anymore.

  • Second Step: Find your own plan for doing
Hang-out with your friends often so you don't get time to think about it too much, Stop putting away your plans with your friends for them, show them that you do have your own plans. Start a new hobby or play video games, Because more you think about it the worse you will actually feel.

  • Third Step: Talk to them about what?
Don't talk with them about 'Them', talk about yourself, rather then asking them about themselves.
Stop caring about their plans, in a simple way ignore things about them but talk about your self more.
Talking tips


  • Don't talk about how happy they can be with you, or what you can with them/for them.
  • Talk about your plans with them like you are hanging with your friends going to a party or something like that.
  • Try and make them jealous like you are going out with you best friends sister or brother, or some one you met online or someone you know very well (you don't actually have to go out with them, just lie about it, but if you don't want to fake it then actually go out with them who know, they might like you)
  • Don't be romantic with them, just be friendly.
  • Talk about how beautiful/handsome a girl/guy that you know or a celebrity that you like
  • Make them jealous in anyway you can.

  • Fourth Step: Stop Feeling sorry for yourself
Stop thinking about getting friendzoned, As I said earlier The more you think about it the worse it gets.
There are over 10 billion people on earth just because one rejected you does not necessarily mean you will never find true love or someone who will not friendzone you.
(not actually recommended to cry about it :P )
  • Fifth step: Stop complaining
 Stop complaining that you got friendzoned ,If you have food in your refrigerator to eat, electricity and internet to read this then you are quite enough fortunate for what you have. Some people are more less fortunate than you are.

  • Sixth Step: Be okay with it
Your friends might and will make fun of you about this, be cool with it, laugh and smile with them when they make fun of you cause if you truly show your feeling about it then, the laughter on you might increase even a lot more (not actually saying that your friends are bad, just saying)

Now lets look over the reasons the possible cause of 'Friendzone'
  1. You are not good looking enough, cause nobody want's to be seen with an ugly date or girl/boyfriend ( Not actually implying that you are ugly, but that might be the reason)
  2. They might already have a relationship, and they are very much in love with each other
  3. They aren't interested in any relationships ( they might have had a very bad past relationship)
  4. Maybe they just consider you just a friend
  5. Or maybe they just like to friendzone people (Not kidding some people actually make it a hobby)
  6. They might actually like you but they need some time to think about it.
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